There are certain activities which you know you should be working at, but still keep pushing it away.
At times, I would complete it, since it is mandatory to do, others get pushed indefinitely. A few of those tasks, may not mean much and is better to die off. But there are a few others, that I know would help me, but still gets postponed.
While going through my diary, the other day, I saw certain books to be read, and activities that are planned every year and are repeated. Reflecting on what could I do better and why are certain things getting postponed, I found the below to be the culprits
Many tasks planned
This is especially true for personal projects. You have many items listed which you know you would not complete entirely. So, if you can complete some, you feel you have achieved the target.
But, after trying to narrow down the list for the past 6 months, it seems that I can provide more focus on the tasks and complete them. It is much easier to track the progress in a skillset after a period of time and see how it aligns to long-term goals.
Feels too big
Some workdays are bad and some worse. And you find that there are some unplanned tasks lined up or some unexpected issues that need to be fixed. It feels like a never-ending loop and you feel overwhelmed.
The advice my previous manager had given for such situations is to "Take a small break from your desk. Come back and then write down the task, split it up as sub-tasks, and then start with the smallest one". It has worked for me. Completing the smallest task gives a sense of control over the situation, which earlier left you paralyzed.
Doing it for the first time
To take on a task, which is not familiar is a bit of a challenge, be it professional or personal. There is a risk of failing, wasted effort, and uncertainty associated with it. To avoid these, you tend to put it off for a better time, that never comes. Or, you keep preparing for it, like collecting more information, read about it and it makes you feel better. But the actual action is still pending.
For such scenarios, it is easier to take action, if you can connect it with something similar done in the past. It may not be from relatable domains, but you can see similarities. The negotiation skills you learn at work may help you deal with kids at home. You have to acknowledge that every endeavor cannot be a success and failure is part of life. Giving up opportunities for the fear of failure is the biggest failure. Try things out small and make changes as you gain more understanding. Don't hesitate to ask for help, many will be there out to help you.
